If you are determined to find your G spot and break new ground in your sex life I can offer a few pointers:

First things first: make sure you go to the washroom before having sex. Due to the similarity of the sensations, the stimulation of the G spot can make you feel the urge to urinate, so take care of this beforehand. Once you're all ready to go, position yourself in such a way that you're not lying flat on your back. The G spot tends to be harder to find in this position, so you may have to test out your gymnastic skills in order to make sure that you get your hands on it (literally!).

Some experts say that it's easier to find the G spot on another person, so don't hesitate to ask your partner to help you out (if you feel comfortable, that is!). If you'd rather go it alone, however, I recommend that you use a small vibrator for stimulation. Finally, the one piece of advice that's always important when it comes to sex: relax. Forget about the race to climax and the goal of female ejaculation—just let yourself go and enjoy the experience!

If you try this without a partner, opt for a squatting position, sit down on the edge of a chair, or do it standing up. Use your forefinger or your middle finger to touch the inner side of your vagina, 3 to 5 cm from its opening. Push strongly towards the top (it shouldn't hurt you, otherwise diminish the pressure). If you touch your G spot, you will know it because you will feel the need to urinate. But rest easy: this urge will last less than 30 seconds and will then give way to great pleasure.

If you don't find the G spot at first, don't panic. The search often requires a few practice tries—and it may be harder or more difficult to find depending upon your particular anatomical construction.

If you try the experience with a partner, I recommended that you get down on all fours, with your pelvis elevated above the rest of your body. Alternatively, you can lie on your stomach with your legs spread and your pelvis arched. Your partner then introduces one or two fingers, with the palm of the hand turned downwards. He can then probe your vaginal wall by pressing firmly, and you can guide him by letting him know what feels good.

YOUR QUESTIONS

What does an orgasm obtained by the stimulation of the G spot feel like? In terms of intensity, women who have reported this type of climax don't necessarily notice a difference from their clitoral orgasms. However, they do notice the special sensation of a downward thrust that often throws the finger or the penis from the vagina. Finally, this type of orgasm is most often linked to female ejaculation, although ejaculation is far from automatic.

Is it dangerous to have regular orgasms through G spot stimulation? There is no medical data that supports this belief—nor is their anything that indicates that any type of orgasm (either clitoral or through G spot stimulation) is in any way damaging to your health. So do some exploring and have fun!